I’ve been seriously stressing my eldest sons engagement party. I can’t quite believe that its only three weeks away. I’ve bought 3 dresses for myself & I’ve come to the conclusion that dresses & me just don’t work. If they accommodate my boobs the bottom looks like a tent & I’m not wearing one. I’m not going to sit all night feeling uncomfortable. I almost feel like I need to justify the fact that I won’t wear a dress but I’m done doing that. The other Mum & the step mother can wear what they want because I am. I wearing trousers & I know my sons girlfriend will be annoyed but shit does happen.