Life really is like washing. It goes through many cycles. Some are just better than others. Even if the colour runs all is not lost. You just need to live with the dye till it washes out. Okay so it might never be the same as when it was new but you can live with it. You remember when I said if life is shit change it. I know it’s far easier to say or type those words than do. I know I’m lucky that my life is very workable but it’s not always been that way. Ian, don’t live an unhappy life & not just because I don’t want you to haha. You deserve the very best. If life, your life is shit, change it. I should add that if you were just having a moan at Kate that’s okay.